I'm Mel. A retired Therapist and Compassion Coach. I utilize energy medicine and Jung's archetype design to increase your connection to self.
So, that you can overcome self-abandonment and have relationships that flourish.
Gain Clarity
Feel Valued
Fully Connect
Confusion Hurts
Women raised with abandonment and rejection wounds play out these wounds on repeat in adulthood.
Behind every anxiously attached and confused female is the desire for connection and to make others happy.
It is in our own fear of setting boundaries and standing up for our own needs that we find ourselves in confusion and overwhelm.
We end up in a continuous cycle of pleasing others, overextending ourselves and playing pretend in our day to day lives.
Only to find ourselves, tired, resentful neglected and burnt out. We also begin to act out of character. We become controlling, isolative, needy, destructive, possessive and at times neglectful.
This can be called co-dependent. What is really happening is the female is avoiding her own pain by clinging onto a destructive relationship pattern in hopes that it will heal that childhood wound.
Since it won't. The cycle is inevitable and it will continue. The ONLY way for it to stop. Is for one partner to awaken to the pain that is inside of the relationship.
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Meet Mel!
I had always felt trapped in a cycle, repeating the same mistakes and encountering the same struggles. It wasn't until I began to unravel the threads of my past that I understood why. I realized that I had been unconsciously repatterning cycles of trauma from my early childhood.
These experiences had shaped beliefs about myself and the world around me, and I had been operating on these outdated assumptions for years. As I delved deeper, I recognized how these beliefs formed the foundation of my worldview. They influenced how I perceived myself and others, and how I navigated my life. It was a challenging journey to confront these ingrained ideas and reframe them, but with each step, I felt a weight lift from my shoulders.
I was rewriting the script of my life, no longer bound by the limitations of my past. The process was not easy, and there were times when I wanted to retreat into old patterns. But with persistence and self-compassion, I continued to unravel and reweave the fabric of my being. It was a transformative journey, and I knew that the awareness I had gained would forever impact how I moved through the world.
If you do not have the right support and guidance, you will continue to wander in the dark. If you have a guide, you will have a clear path out of your own confusion. A light that you can reclaim as your own. It was always yours.
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